My Say... # 277

"Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self-respect, values, morals or self worth."

My Say... # 276

one regretful moment is inviting a so called friend over, and ending up having a stranger at home.

My Say... # 275

All people do things that may not always be based on sound judgment. But when another person confides something in them out of trust, that is when everyone puts on the thinking hat. And irrespective of whether they have experienced it or not there is an over pouring words of advises.

My Say #... 274

If you regret a thing about someone you know, it is not because they did something bad, it is because you have always seen the person in a much higher standing than they actually are.

My Say... # 273

When there are no people around to confide in. I eat cakes to ease myself and then I don't find the need to confide into anyone.

My Say... # 272

Nothing in life is for free. Everything has a give and take policy.

My Say... # 271

Empathy is that word which, in reality, almost never manifests itself!

My Say... # 270

A lesson for life that is still hard on me. Never go to a fortune teller or astrologer. And don't  believe in one. No one deserves to tell what your future is going be like. You get to make your choices and lay the road and find a path to reach your Goal.
I once went to an astrologer with my parents, when I was in high school. With some information he was able to manipulate and make out what personalities we were. He even predicted till what age we will live. It is the worst thing ever to tell a person when they would die. It didn't effect me much in years after the forecast was made. But now that I live in a different country from where my parents do, there are days I miss them so much, I wake up in the middle of the night haunted by nightmares of losing my parents. I regret having heard that forecast. I hate astrology.

My Say... # 269

Only a person who is far away from all his old threads (family) will truly miss his people and try to tighten and secure  his threads. But among these people very few will reciprocate it from the other side. That's the irony of this busy life that people at some point will end up giving less importance to their threads.

My Say... #268

Life is a race which can only be run by ones own self. Every one we come across in life are like hurdles or obstacles who will give their never ending advises or even try to divert away from one's goal. No family nor friend is ever going to come all the way to give that bottle of water. It's ones own self who gotta grab that water and work towards reaching the goal. Even if it has to do with losing on some relationships which may be like an extra road to confuse us.

My Say... # 267

One of the worst feelings I have ever experienced,  having visitors who make me feel uncomfortable in my own house.

My Say... # 266

An irony of  life is when a husband is thinking of retirement in his thirties while his wife just started searching for a job in her thirties.

My Say... # 265

Some people deny having said and done some nasty things in life, but the same people are also capable of making others believe and accept on the things the others have never done. Life becomes a hell to live with such people

My Say... # 264

When you look back and see, and you think you have lot of friends. But in reality you pull up your phone and want to call and talk to someone but don't know who would have the time to talk or listen to you. Suddenly realise there is no one you can talk so freely with. That is loneliness.

My Say... # 263

Sometimes it is not racism that is to be blamed, it's systemic poverty that leads to economic anxiety

My Say... #262

Hate, just like fear, consumes us. Both are misplaced emotions but fear is not as useless as hate is.

My Say... # 261

Being non judgemental also means accepting, getting creative and progressing since there aren't any filters to see through and possibly get stuck in any situation.

My Say... # 260

When life gives you lemons.. Make a detox beverage with them..
With few more additional ingredients like honey,turmeric and water.
After all lemonades can not always keep you healthy.

My Say... # 259

One way to handle a miscommunication is to stay quiet.

My Say... # 258

A person can not always be a type A personality in everything he does, except for the ones that is really a priority for him.